If you are considering starting your Montessori parenting journey and wondering what to expect, you are not alone. A few years ago, I was in your position. Let me assure you that I am the father of two spirited children— [ Baivab(8) & Munia(6)]. In addition, I am a Montessori teacher with a decade of experience. Furthermore, I have been raising my children using Montessori principles since infancy.
Despite being well-informed about Montessori education principles, I have learned lessons that I wish someone had shared with me before I became a parent.
I have shared several Montessori parenting-related topics with you, but this one is special because if you are just getting started or even if you are a few years in, this article will offer a helpful roadmap.
1. Practical Life Isn’t Just an Activity—It’s the Heart of Montessori Parenting
If you think that Montessori at home is all about picture-perfect, curated wooden toys and Pinterest-worthy shelves, you are probably mistaken. But the reality is, the true magic of Montessori is found in practical life activities. I hope you are familiar with the Montessori practical life activities, if not — these are the everyday tasks — doing the dishes, mopping the floor, folding laundry, gardening, preparing food.
Children love imitating us i.e. they love doing what we do.So,if we encourage them to get involved in everyday tasks from a young age ,we will be able to teach them not just life skills, it will make them feel capable and valued in the family.
Montessori Isn’t Magic — And That’s Okay
Let’s be practical. Suppose you’ve bought a toy for your child labeled ‘Montessori’—does that always mean your child will love it? If the answer is ‘no,’ don’t be disappointed. That’s completely natural. A more practical approach is to select beautiful wooden puzzles and activities that your child genuinely enjoys. Montessori is about following the child, not forcing them into a mold.
Borrow, DIY, or Buy Secondhand When Possible
It is not always possible to buy expensive Montessori toys or other Montessori materials. However, you can borrow materials from other Montessori families or look for secondhand options.
Respect Their Timeline (Even When It’s Not Convenient)
Your children will surely make mistakes. They may, in some cases, spill water, scatter dust, and even damage costly toys, and these moments can test your patience. Trust me, I have been there. But believe me — it’s part of their learning journey.
Montessori Is a Mindset — Not a Checklist
Finally, Montessori parenting is not about following rigid routines, but it’s all about prioritizing respect, independence, and trust in your child’s ability to grow.
Sumanta De is an educator. He has been teaching students for more than 16 years following the principles of Dr.Maria Montessori. He has a 7-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter.
He is nurturing his children abiding by the principles of Dr.Maria Montessori. His passion for Montessori methods goes beyond the classroom.
Hence, he shares his experiences and insights through a dedicated Montessori blog and a YouTube channel under the name “NewChild Montessori”. He aims to offer valuable guidance to both parents and educators.
Education: M.A. English, Masters in Child Psychology & Bachelor’s Degree in Montessori Teachers Training