“Am I doing it right?”
“What can I do to make my child learn quickly and effectively?” – These are the questions that haunt every Montessori parent. Even as a Montessori teacher, I found myself baffled by them. I assume that you’re a parent and are constantly searching for ways to instill good habits in your children—you’re in the right place.
Hi, I’m Sumanta De— a Montessori Early Childhood Educator and a father to an 8-year-old boy and a 6-year-old girl. They mean the world to me.
Like every sincere parent, I try my best. No one can deny that we live in a fast-paced world, and therefore, we often forget the simple parenting principles we already know. Hence, we all need a gentle reminder.
Inspired by Dr. Maria Montessori’s wisdom, I’m here to share three powerful tips that can help your child learn faster and grow up with strong values.
Be the Role Model – Teach Grace and Courtesy
We all want our children to be polite, kind, and respectful — but how do we teach that?
Children don’t learn by being told. They learn by watching.
Please be kind, gentle, and honest to your children. We need to remember that if we want our children to be courteous, we have to be courteous first. Share and help others. Speak respectfully to people around you — including your child.
In doing so, you will notice that your child has started to reflect the same behavior. They learn by watching you. And trust me, this shift is magical.
Gift the Gift of Gab – Talk, Talk, Talk!
If you are keen on improving your child’s language skills, the best simple way is conversation.
Talk to your child whenever you can — in the car, at the store, during meals, or while folding laundry. You don’t need to teach vocabulary explicitly. Just speak.
Teach Independence – One Step at a Time
As parents, we can’t refrain from helping our kids sometimes. But if we want our children to be independent, we need to let them try independently.
Every child is different. Some need support, others don’t— and that’s okay. But if you let them try, it will give them space to build confidence and problem-solving skills.
So next time you ask yourself, “Am I doing it right?” — just remember:
- Model what you want them to learn.
- Talk like it matters — because it does.
- Step back and let them step up.
You’re doing better than you think.
Sumanta De is an educator. He has been teaching students for more than 16 years following the principles of Dr.Maria Montessori. He has a 7-year-old son and a 5-year-old daughter.
He is nurturing his children abiding by the principles of Dr.Maria Montessori. His passion for Montessori methods goes beyond the classroom.
Hence, he shares his experiences and insights through a dedicated Montessori blog and a YouTube channel under the name “NewChild Montessori”. He aims to offer valuable guidance to both parents and educators.
Education: M.A. English, Masters in Child Psychology & Bachelor’s Degree in Montessori Teachers Training